You can't do anything about how far away your partner is, so lean into the situation and take away some positives. "It's gutting that your amour is oceans away, but it's also an opportunity for you to use your time alone to do things you find rewarding (including stuff that might not be your lover's cup of tea)," advises Fox. "Diving into a hobby or project will help distract you from pining for your partner and give you more to talk about. Plus, if your relationship is as strong and supportive as you'd hope, they'll cheer on your growth, enjoyment, and accomplishments. Whether it's a craft, community group, education, or athletics, savour the time you have to truly commit yourself which is afforded by a long-distance commitment."