Hader and Carey were married from 2006 to 2018, per People. They two share three daughters: Hannah, Harper, and Hayley. In January 2019, Hader got emotional while talking about co-parenting with Carey during an interview with Variety.
"I think I saw my kids a total of five days all summer," he shared. "It was terrible. So I'm going, 'Next summer I'm taking off. And I'm going to spend every day with them.' It's this weird thing where when you're in this industry, you don't have time to be with them, and it's really, really difficult. I'm getting emotional right now talking about it."
Despite his busy schedule, Hader noted that his relationship with Carey is positive. "I'm friends with my ex-wife," he said.