Patti wants to remind us all to take time for you. In her book Become Your Own Matchmaker, Patti suggests a 90-day detox after you've broken up — or if you've overdated — to set yourself back on the right track. If you need a detox or maybe just a break, take it. Nothing positive can come from wearing yourself down on the dating scene. Take a beat and refresh, then head back out there. You've got this.