As most parents can attest to, kids are always watching us, which means showing them how to use their white privilege for good can be incredibly effective. "Regardless of what you say to your kid, they're going to absolutely feel — and have been picking up on — how we lead our lives," Faber says.
To make the most of this, McKoy's family shares their daily "highs and lows," placing a special emphasis on the things they've done to help others. Similarly, parents can share and show their own experiences in order to teach white children what allyship actually looks like.