Real Women Share Their Tips For Talking Dirty Like a Pro

"To get my girlfriend really excited, I'll say 'I'm yours' and give her this look that's animalistic and raw, but also intimate. It's a way of saying I am hers and just hers to bring us closer, but also that I am hers in that moment and she can do whatever she wants to me and make us both go wild."

— JR

"While my boyfriend would also just double check before putting it in the butt or somewhere we haven't done before, saying he can put it anywhere makes him insane. He gets really horny and I love seeing him so turned on. It's super dirty and makes him feel powerful for a fun, dynamic role play that we can do."

— PL

"If my guy ever is taking a while and I want him to finish (not because he's bothering me and I hate sex, but because I want to please him, too!) I'll tell him I want him to come for me like I came for him. This works because it makes him feel good and confident for getting me off and then relaxes him into finishing himself."

— BN

"My girlfriend loves my butt and I really like to be spanked. She's pretty gentle, but hard enough where it feels amazing for both of us. So when we're having sex, I'll tell her I've been bad and need a spanking and she happily accepts."

— HM

"This one is great because it brings in a 'dirty' action where we can really connect as a couple on a deeper level, while it still being hot and intense."

— FN

"So ever since I saw the movie Cruel Intentions, I loved the part where she says, 'I'll f*ck your brains out' and Sebastian goes numb. So I say that to my boyfriend sometimes over text to tell him to come straight home for that surprise. It makes the anticipation so hot."

— RC

"It's so simple and so effective. When he's inside you say 'I love how you feel inside me baby' and make direct eye contact. Gets my guy every time."

— SB

"I ask my boyfriend what gets him off, letting him tell me what he wants me to do. We respect each other where he wouldn't ask for something he knows I wouldn't be comfortable with, but it lets him use his imagination and fantasize about really hot, dirty things we could try together. We do sometimes!"

— LS