Best Sex Toys For Lesbians: Vibrators, Dildos, and Strap-Ons
The Best Sex Toys For Lesbians, According to a Lesbian
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While exciting to think about, the sheer volume of sex toys — vibrators, dildos, BDSM kits, nipple clamps, clitoral stimulators, strap-on toys, and so many more — is undeniably overwhelming to sift through, even more so when you're not entirely sure what you're looking for. This feeling was only amplified when I first started to explore my sexuality as a lesbian, torn between questionable designs I was told I should like and the sex toys that actually made me feel good. The truth is, the perfect sex toy is as personal as a fingerprint, and the best sex toys for lesbians will, ultimately, depend on from where and how someone derives the most pleasure.
For example, do you crave clitoral stimulation, or do your craziest orgasms come from G-spot stimulation? Are you more interested in anal play than anything else? What about nipple play? Ahead, you'll find a wealth of the best sex toys for lesbians, curated by a lesbian, that mostly veer away from heavily phallic designs and deliver targeted pleasure to multiple body parts and erogenous zones. You can use these during sex with a partner or play with these sex toys solo. All that matters is that you pick the sex toy that feels best to you and lets you orgasm your way.
Clitoral Sex Toys: Unbound Puff
It's cute, compact, and colourful — what's not to love about Unbound's Puff (£40)? In all seriousness, the Puff packs a serious punch, and the 2,000+ positive reviews are proof. It's designed to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand, it's made of body-safe silicone, and it's totally fine to use in the shower or bath. The head delivers powerful outer stimulation to your clitoris — or anywhere else you'd like targeted sensation — at varying speeds and patterns so you can orgasm your way. After a few hours of play, simply recharge for about an hour and keep play time going.
Rabbit Vibrators: LELO Soraya Wave Luxurious Rabbit Massager
After I got my first big-girl job and had a little more disposable income saved up, I bought a LELO Soraya vibrator. In the years since, I've played around with myriad sex toys, but I've always returned to my trusty Soraya. The LELO Soraya Wave Luxurious Rabbit Massager (£209) is a new iteration of this design, and while it's certainly an investment, you'll get your money's worth. The sleek silicone is complemented by metallic elements that scream luxury, and the design of both heads on the toy is sure to take you straight to orgasm extremely quickly with internal and external stimulation. The flexible external arm vibrates intensely as it moves with you, while the internal head, according to LELO, "surges in a come-hither motion" to hit your G-spot.
Dildos: Blush Avant D15 Vision Of Love Silicone Suction Cup Dildo
The Blush Avant D15 Vision Of Love Silicone Suction Cup Dildo (£48.50) is a straightforward sex toy that's ideal for beginners and sex toy aficionados alike. The dildo is made from high-quality, non-porous silicone to ensure safety and durability, and it's perfectly compatible with a host of strap-on harness, should you want to go that route. If not, you have plenty of options of how and where to use this dildo, including stick its suction-cup end to the floor, your shower wall, or virtually anything that's smooth, clean, and hard. It's hard enough to make penetration easy, but flexible enough to keep things fun and comfortable.
Clitoral Sex Toys: LELO Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager
On paper, the LELO Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager (£159) sounds like the perfect sex toy. It's designed with a wide "mouth" to ensure maximum clitoral stimulation. It boasts eight different pulse settings that allow you to customise your experience with your preferred intensity. It's made with high-quality silicone to keep you coming over time. And according to the many glowing reviews, it's great to use in the tub. The one thing that sets this gorgeous sex toy apart from others, in my opinion, is the fact that, if it were sitting on display at Anthropologie with no indication it's a sex toy, I'd think it was a quirky piece of home decor and buy it in a heartbeat, no questions asked.
Clitorial Sex Toys: Finger Pro by Bellesa
You can always trust your finger to get the job done, but why not kick things up a notch? The Finger Pro by Bellesa (£44) is pretty much exactly like it sounds: like your finger, but better. The vibrator features a simple finger strap and a small head designed to mimic the sensations of a tongue during oral sex. The head is interestingly designed, surrounded by an oval of silicone rods, which might sound a bit scary, but are just meant to add even more sensation to your orgasm. Overall, this toy is quiet, rechargeable, and easily portable for pleasure wherever you are.
Strap-On Sex Toy: Lovehoney Double Delight Adjustable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo
If you're getting down with a partner, the Lovehoney Double Delight Adjustable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Dildo (£40) is a fun — not to mention slightly more affordable — sex toy to add to the mix. The adjustable double end allows for both partners to be penetrated at an angle that feels comfortable, and the contoured shaft is meant to heighten pleasure for the wearer. The base includes a slot for a small bullet vibrator, delivering pulsing sensations to either end of the dildo. All in all, it's highly rated, safe for your body, and able to be used in a variety of ways depending on what feels good for you and your partner.
Hands-Free Vibrator: Dame Eva Couples Vibrator
The Dame Eva Couples Vibrator (£122) is a hands-free innovation that delivers intense pleasure while leaving your hands free for . . . other things. The flexible wings feature enough tension to tuck right under your labia and stay put, while the body rests against your clitoris and vaginal opening, delivering irresistible vibrations at three different speeds. Use it during sex with someone else for added stimulation, or use it on your own without having to worry about your hands getting tired.
G-Spot Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync Chorus
Complete with a squeeze-sensitive remote control, the We-Vibe Sync Chorus (£180) is meant to deliver double the pleasure, designed to internally stimulate the G-spot while externally stimulating the clitoris. With 10 vibration variations total — three intensity levels and seven patterns — the toy is also designed to respond to your body, specifically, ramping up vibrations as you clench and move with it. Even more, couples can use the We-Vibe We-Connect app with the Chorus, allowing your partner to control the toy and vice versa. Between the remote, the vibration settings, and the app, the ways you can orgasm with the Chorus are endless.
