Sex is such a huge part of a relationship, yet it's probably the thing you talk about the least. The result? Neither of you gets what you want in bed. "The fact is, the more we talk about sex, the better sex we'll have," she said.
The fix: "Instead of talking in the bedroom, save the conversation for a neutral place. I like to suggest during a car ride because you're alone together and don't have to make any awkward eye contact," she said. When you are talking about sex, just remember to avoid blame and shame and make it more about curiosity, she added.