You'll need to get revved up before taking your pants off. "Studies have shown that women require an average of 18 minutes of foreplay to become aroused enough for sex," said Morse.
The fix: "Start with sexy texts and teasing throughout the day. When you get home, don't limit foreplay activities to quick kissing and fondling — get creative," she said. Try a sensual massage, extended oral, or a simple blindfold to tease a bit.