Between work, kids, family obligations, and just some me time where you don't want your partner around, it can be hard to make time for intimacy. "Whether you've got kids, stressful careers, or both, it's super easy to blame a lack of sex on a busy schedule. I'm here to tell you that this is not a question of time, but a question of priorities," she said.
The fix: Put it on the to-do list. "It's so important to make sex a priority — even if you have to schedule it. Getting it on the calendar not only takes the pressure off, but it gives you both something to look forward to," she said.