You have to shake things up or else you might fall into a sex rut. "My mom used to tell me, 'Emily, only boring people get bored.' This applies to sex, too. It's tempting to blame our partner when sex becomes routine, but remember: you're 50 percent of that routine," she said.
The fix: "Take responsibility and initiate a change. Something as small as a different room, a new position, or a sex toy can completely turn things around," she explained.